Friday, December 17, 2010
Tv Deals After The Superbowl
busy week that passed, in which I have collected a lot of worries and concerns.
The women I know talk about the impossibility of reconciliation: those who have had twins and now is confronted with the inclusion of the nest, but those who start at 40 and the father admitted to hospital with pneumonia difficult to cure, but those who are twins hail them already, but being laid off, it is not taken into consideration in the talks because of its offspring ....
short, a female universe taken with the "usual" family issues, big and small. Universes in which husbands are, are, are doing their best.
So what?
I would say, that now is the time when we stop to feel "equal" and accept our differences. That is healthy, beautiful and irreplaceable. Are we the balance of mood family, we know that we are the psychological nuances, we who play a balance of commencement. Our husbands, even good ones, often do not reach us, are - just - different.
So if we recognize this, we also understand that it is necessary, at least for certain periods of life, work less. If not we will always be hamstrung in their work.
themselves as being equal is too high a penalty to pay when you have twins or a sick father, and a price that we pay just us.
My proposal is to explain this "agreement" with our husbands and the community at least seek compensation and pension. Husbands to a private pension to supplement the lean we're going to take it or because we have not worked, or because we are subject Orrido pay gap. The community, where their husbands are not there, the same thing.
I know that many of my readers will be affected by these words, but I really believe that we can not go on like this. We can not always pay on their own, with a superlative stress, with a constant concern, our desire for motherhood.
And then many other women, without children, think like us. If we can not formalize
80% of working time, at least keep the official timetable, without being taken by the syndrome of presenteeism.
And again, we try to be objective in scheduling commitments.
After we showed the world that wonderwoman, day after day it continues at exactly the same. And our super heroism nobody remembers.
Girls, you become smart!
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